The New Normal

About 6 weeks ago my father-in-law, Steve, fell and broke his hip. He spent 3 weeks in the hospital for surgery and rehab, then was released for home care. My mother-in-law, Carole, is amazing - she's been caring for him around the clock. His hip is improving, but his degenerative neurological condition continues to progress in a downward direction making every move difficult.

Steve has been a vital, proud, strong, athletic guy his whole life, so this situation is extremely challenging for him. He used to read all day long, but now his double vision is so severe that he can't read any more. Mom or other visitors read the sports page to him, he listens to the radio a lot. He feels very blessed by his network of support and is accepting help well. We are grateful to all those outside the family that are sitting with him when we need it too.

On my days off now, I spend a lot of time helping Steve and Carole with financial issues, paperwork and care needs. I struggled with selfishness and mourned the loss of "my free time" at first. But, I've settled into offering myself in service to them, because I love them and want to bear their burdens. It's overwhelming at times, but such a privilege to serve. Our new normal is molding me into a better servant, and therefore, more like Jesus -- a good place to be.

Please pray for Steve and Carole as they walk this difficult path together. Thanks.